How To Approach Women
Many guys have asked me "how to approach
women". Well, after looking at this topic for a while, I
have decided to make a comprehensive list of the top things
NOT to do so you will know how to approach women the right
way - by avoiding these common mistakes!
Just remember, when you talk to women you
want to display attractiveness and higher social status. You
can convey these traits, not by wearing expensive watches or
buying her drinks, but rather displaying your personality to
her in a way that makes her realize that you are an alpha
guy. Thus, you need to be confident, smooth, not let things
phase you and don't worry too much about the
outcome.
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Top 10 mistakes guys make who do not know
how to approach women:
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Giving her a lame compliment - by
opening her with something like "you're so
beautiful, can I take you out sometime?". You are
immediately conveying lower status, because you are
the one that wants to buy her approval. I'm not
saying don't give compliments, but you need to
pepper it within the conversation about things you
notice about her apart from her physical
appearance.
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Immediately doing her a favor when she has
done nothing to earn it - This is when a
guy buys a girl a drink for no apparent reason. He
does her a favor, like buying her a drink. What
does this do? He shows to the girl that he is
trying to impress her with money and is
supplicating immediately to her. Thus lowering his
own status.
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He approaches in a way that scares her or
talks to too quietly - This shows to her
you are afraid of letting her know you are there.
Do not come up from behind when you approach her,
instead let her know you are walking up to her.
Also, when you talk to her, make sure she hears
you.
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Giving little eye contact - Many
guys are afraid to look at a women in the eye when
he is talking to her. A man who looks straight into
the women's eyes tells her that he is a high status
male, he knows what he is doing and he is very
confident. This is attractive. Looking elsewhere
when attempting to approach her is not.
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Being "the drunk guy" - Women do
not appreciate being just hit on by "the drunk guy"
because you show her you are not confident enough
to talk to her without being boozed up with
alcohol. No confidence equates to being a lower
status male and this is not attractive.
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Not being able to create a
presence - when a man approaches a women,
he needs to let her know he is there, and create a
presence. Owning your own space and acquiescing to
others spatially lets her know that you are not
comfortable being there. If you're not comfortable
you're not confident, and you are not attractive.
This is not how to approach women. Instead, you
should be holding yourself in an accommodating
position where you are relaxed with a confident
pose, especially if there are other guys around.
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He is trying too hard to say the right
thing - This comes down to the fact that
many men are goal orientated when they meet women.
The focus is not to get anything from her but
rather just enjoy the interaction between you two.
If you can do this then the pressure of performance
is lifted and you will pass the female screening
test for men. Because, you are not out to get
something from her.
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He ignores her friends - Remember,
friends to a women are very important. Thus, if you
ignore her friends, your intentions will be obvious
and you will be perceived as that guy who is
obviously trying to hit on her and being rude to
her friends. This is not attractive and does not
help. Further, you'll look antisocial and seem as
if you have no social intelligence. You will make
the whole situation seem awkward and weird.
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Asking for the number too soon -
The interaction should be fun and amusing for both
of you. If you are there just to get her number,
then you have an agenda thus you will be putting
the interaction in a box. Things will not be able
to move smoothly and it will kill any rapport that
you had. Some guys think of getting her phone
number as a reward to give her. If she is cool
enough then you want to hang out with her. Not the
other way around. Thus, you should only ask for her
number if you are comfortable with her, and don't
make it too soon so it would be obvious. Just
another note. Please do not walk away immediately
after you get her number, this will make you seem
like a player and you were genuinely not
interested.
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Not initiating flirting - Unless
you want to be categorized as a friend only, you
don't want to be the guy who does no flirting.
Flirting in itself creates attraction. Without
flirting then there is also really no point in
approaching! Read the article on flirting
with
women to learn about it.
There is actually a very good ebook on this
topic dedicated to approaching women. Check it out
The Art of Approaching Women.
Be sure to read How To
Attract Women for advice on how to act after the
approach! Also have a look at
David Deagenlo and his book
Double Your Dating!
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