Online Dating Advice
The First Message
|
If you are looking for online dating advice
to do with what to send in the first message
then you're in luck!
I know a lot of guys make the mistake of
writing a fantastic message that could
potentially be submitted to university's for
PHD degrees - the effort and work they put in
is admirable. However, the results are woeful.
I know this sounds counter intuitive but I know
for a fact if you spend 4 hours writing about
how you and some random woman whom you've never
met before are just meant to be she will not be
flattered. Actually, she'll think you are a
freak and run away real fast.
|
|
Before I continue, you should check out this fantastic
step-by-step guide that got a ex computer nerd more than 400
dates all through online dating:The
Online Game. Go there now!
Back to the article about online dating advice and the first
message...
Why would you scare women away if you sent her such a
carefully crafted and thoughtful message?
Because you are showing her way too much interest before she
has done anything to deserve that sort of attention. Besides
your 30 page message is way too long to read and she has 300
other messages to skim through and 20 other guys to flirt with.
Why does she need to bother with you?
So what is the trick to get a response in your first
message?
Well, you need to keep it short and
funny.
What I mean by that is generally, you want to make sure you
message does not exceed more than two paragraphs. You want to
make it sound very casual and short. This way you let her know
you are not needy or a loser.
Another thing, and the most important thing is to include
something humorous or funny in your messages that relate
directly to her. You want to challenge her in a way that makes
her want to respond to you instead of making her feel like
deleting you. For example, if she's into dancing and you saw
that on her profile you can say "Yo I was just cruising by and
noticed you're into dancing? What do you do? I've been dancing
for ages and I have yet to find someone who can handle me (I
represented my country and got a gold medal at the Olympics for
doing the Macarena). What do you think? Up for the
challenge?"
As you can see that message is funny and to the point and
talks about her interests! That is much more likely to get a
response from her instead of a long winded essay about how you
should meet her. That is just scary.
Be sure to keep it short and sweet and you'll find that you
will get a much higher response rate from women when you
message them online!
If you want to get more online dating advice and tips on how
to flirt online so she'll want to meet you within a few
messages, you need to learn the secrets from Derek
Lamont's The Online Game
I have reviewed it and you can check my review of it here:
The Online Game Review. You will discover how a geeky
virgin managed to date more than 400 women through the internet
and become one of the smoothest online seduction gurus
around.
If you like my article about online dating advice, why
don't you sign up to my 6 part mini seduction course
below?
|
|
 |
Not
Experiencing The
Online Dating Success
You Want?
If your answer to the above
question is yes,
then I strongly recommend
that you check out:
The Online
Game
This is one of the best
courses for online dating.
Targetted for men who are
not experiencing online
dating success!
Plus
right now it comes with
6
Bonuses
Plus 100% Money
Back
Guarantee!
You have to check out:
The Online
Game
|
| 
Delicious
Digg
Facebook
Fark
Reddit
Stumbleupon
Furl
